“To jaw-jaw is better than to war-war,” said Winston Churchill in 1954, supporting the principle of nations negotiating. These wise words from a great leader should be kept in mind regarding Ukraine, where Russia has been aggressively supporting rebel forces.

Russia is now building up military forces around Ukraine, repeating a similar effort undertaken last spring. Direct discussion of the topic by Presidents Joe Biden of the U.S. and Vladimir Putin of Russia is desirable.

However, Russia’s borders with the nations of Europe are primarily a European responsibility. The United States should be involved and supportive, but dominating negotiations encourages Europeans to avoid hard strategic leadership and spend time on their preferred, relatively easy tasks of building Euro-bureaucracy and talking among themselves.

Important progress in stabilizing Ukraine has been the result of initiatives by leaders of Europe. In February 2015, a Ukraine ceasefire resulted from all-night negotiation involving German Chancellor Angela Merkel, with President François Hollande of France.

The Cold War was rooted in different conceptions of society and relations among nations. Soviet leaders “are not like … us,” wrote American diplomat George Kennan in his book “Realities of American Foreign Policy,” also published in 1954.

Kennan, expert on Germany and Russia, was among the most perceptive of American analysts of international relations, an always ardent student and writer. The containment policy he defined guided United States policies toward the Soviet Union and other communist powers throughout the Cold War.

He focused on prudent realist diplomacy, which assumes conflict among national interests is inevitable. He emphasized Soviet and U.S. leaders vary markedly in experiences and outlook. Particularly brutal total war informed Moscow’s worldview. The fundamentally unproductive Communist system — if restrained — would eventually collapse.

Kennan headed the policy planning staff of the State Department during the Truman administration, when containment became the foundation of the U.S. approach to the Soviet Union. He became a target of conservatives, even as President Dwight Eisenhower confirmed containment as policy.

President John F. Kennedy deserves credit for bringing Kennan back into public service as ambassador to Yugoslavia. Positioned at the crossroads of East-West Cold War conflict, representing our national interests in a major breakaway East European state, Kennan acquitted himself commendably.

In 1979, Princeton University Press published one of Kennan’s most challenging books, “The Decline of Bismarck’s European Order.” After unifying Germany, Otto von Bismarck provided effective diplomatic leadership to continental Europe through managing complex alliances. His departure from office, and the mediocre leadership that followed, set the stage for World War I.

Henry Kissinger insightfully notes that Ukraine has never really been unified or truly independent. For hundreds of years, that territory was part of Russia.

Today, the European Union provides a unifying economic structure, while Germany has re-emerged as the principal leading nation on the continent. Merkel, since becoming chancellor of Germany in 2005, has brought greater financial discipline within the EU, especially regarding he nations of southern Europe.

She also proved adept at limiting powerful domestic political pressures working against her leadership, which includes underwriting the solvency of nations many Germans view as profligate. German nationalism today is subdued but still potentially potent.

Chancellor Merkel now is retiring, scheduled this month after Germany has a new government. Her legacy should inspire Germany’s new leaders, and guide diplomacy.

The core principle is self-determination for Ukraine’s people. That can discipline European diplomacy, with our support.

Learn more: George F. Kennan, “Memoirs” — 2 volumes

Arthur I. Cyr is the Clausen Distinguished Professor at Carthage College and author of “After the Cold War” (NYU Press and Palgrave/Macmillan).